« on: April 24, 2006, 03:48:42 PM »
I have had this friend for 3 years. We have always been kinda close but they have been somewhat fickle, 2-faced, bossy, etc.
They do not really listen when I talk or seem to care about stuff in my life. I am always listening to them and giving them advice.
This friend has recently gotten into a new relationship and is now thinking of postponing law school, maybe forever. They only got into tier 4's with no $$ and so doesn't think it is worth it to take on the debt. They will instead be working admin for about $30K a year,
I met the friends new other half and to say I am not impressed is an understatement. The other person is good looking, congenial, etc but seems very very shady to me. I don't have the best vibe.
Well my friend and I were meant to go out and I tried calling them allday, no answer. (This is a big deal because this person LIVES for their cell)
I then get in contact with them, in the evening, only to hear they have already gone out and supposedly had left there phone in the car and that is why they never picked up. I totally don't believe this *&^%.
This is like the last straw to me, after a string of other crappy experiences with this person being Rude to my other friends, spiteful, snide, etc.
I honestly don't think this person and I will be able to remain friends but I don't want them to f up their life by not going to ls and moving in with this crap person. What would you do?